You can do a lot when you gain the confidence to do it. Success in life is about having the confidence to take on your life’s challenges and opportunities. You should be succeeding by merely being confident. Try it for a while and you should realize confidence is an important ingredient in the results you get. Being confident that you can do some work in a few hours then take on the work.
Some of you readers might ask what it takes to gain confidence. There is really nothing other than a deliberate attempt. you must for once go beyond your fear.
The advice seems ironic. On one part, you say you are not confident and you fear taking responsibility for your life. On the other hand, you say you want to be confident and take responsibility for your actions, to achieve the results you desire. The answer lies within because you are the one with an idea of what the results will look like when you get them. Thus, the message of confidence is really all about you and what you want.
People who seek to build confidence can try by doing a few things well in a short time. Take cold showers the first thing you wake up in the morning. Lift each day, ten kgs on each arm together or separately in ten repetitions. Dress sharply even when you are just sitting in your living room. Pay attention to your speed and your posture as you walk. Just do things a little bit differently as a confident and succeeding person would be doing. Start small and act like the successful image you have in your head. Think of what the wealthy and important persons do in life and try to do it even when it is on a small scale. The behavior will kick in and before you know it, you will be demonstrating some mannerisms of confident persons.
Confident persons care little about the repercussions of actions and about the opinion of others because they know that these opinions can only arise when the confident person takes action.
There is no point in worrying about others when you are not going to take action. Your family may mind your success and your money. However, if you are not going to get the money anyway, why are you worrying about what they will think. And if you shall get the money, what does it matter to them? Either way, it is your life, and such a mindset is what differentiates most losers in life and the winners who are elitists.
A loser will continue focusing on what is happening in the mainstream thinking that life will automatically change. You should stay away from such influence and do things that will bring change in your life. Avoid attention seekers as they help you with nothing. Work on you.inc. You can start journaling or continue journaling for those who already started.
When others are watching TV, you should be with a piece of paper or with a note app on your phone, reflecting on things you did well and areas worth improving in your life. Retrospection is important for building confidence in life. Confidence will let you stay in a grateful mood throughout the day, always realizing that you had it in you to do some things. You can take on the punches, and continue living like a frugal person, since you are dedicating all monies to pay debt. Confidence will be helping you realize that you can live without debt.